Anonymous asked: have you ever ruined music by attaching it to someone?
i’ve not been able to ruin music by attaching it to someone since i was in jr. high. certain music takes me back to certain times in my life and i get reminiscent feelings, but no one person or thing can ruin any music for me. music is so much more than that. people and the interactions i have with them can’t fuck with it. it’s one of the few concrete things in my life i can rely on.
but let me elaborate a bit more:
music has TOTALLY ruined [certain] people for me.
there are things i’ve realized through songs that i could never have thought of alone or without someone severely shattering my reality. but these realizations are usually for the better.
i guess, for some reason, if the sentiments are put into song, i’m way more likely to actually comprehend and be interested in what there is to be said. i’m an arrogant being so, a lot of the time, i just don’t give a fuck what people think or say. but a song can hammer an issue home and humble me or totally empower me to say “fuck [these] people.”
i dunno, dude. music is fucking powerful.